We look to material world so much more than the spiritual world. When trouble hits we look for a counselor/book/program first instead of a concerted effort on our knees in prayer. The other things are fine, but we tend to put them FIRST...then "back them up" with prayer. I do this all the time, still, and I know that I short-circuit the power available. I think our main problem is what I now call "Fast-Food Christianity" (that will be my 2nd or 3rd book) - we want it fast, cheap and convenient. Prayer efforts can be slow, costly and inconvenient. How much do we trust God? How often do we rely on His power? Almost all of us fall short in this area...so start SMALL! Pray little prayers throughout the day...in the car, at work, during a meeting! Keep the lines open with God, always seeking guidance & wisdom to do His will...PRAY WITH YOUR WIVES, GUYS! BE A MAN AND LEAD! LADIES...support him and seek his leadership in prayer, but don't badger him - encourage him and PRAY for him. READ 2 Chronicles 7:14 often and remember the promises He made us and keeps...IF WE DO IT HIS WAY.